When Patriarchy is just a memory



I must wait for the sunrise

I must think of a new life

And I mustn’t give in

When the dawn comes

Tonight will be a memory too

And a new day will begin

(“Memory” from Cats by Trevor Nunn and Andrew Lloyd Webber)


In Cats, Grizabella sings of the memory of a wonderful and glamorous past, which is vastly different from her now seemingly plain life. However, she desires a new life and hopes for the promise of a new day.


I also have hope for a new day; but I hope for a new day where future memories will replace those of despair. I hope for a new day where women no longer have to struggle for equal opportunities, and patriarchy is but a memory. I long for the rising of the sun, which brings the dawn of a new day, where men and women of the church are truly co-laborers in the Lord, and there is no gender discrimination. I wait for the sunrise of a lived egalitarian church community, where the patriarchy of tonight becomes just a memory.


I long for the daylight of God’s intended equality for women and men to be realized by all.

I long for that sunrise that dispels the oppression of the night that goes unnoticed by some.

I long for the hope of what could be if we lived in a community of mutuality.

I long for a day when patriarchy is just a memory, and a gender hierarchy is no longer present in the church.

I long for the sunrise that brings a celebration and recognition of the equal worth of each and every person.


However, I must wait for the sunrise.

As I wait in the night, I dream of a new memory where women are truly viewed as equals. I wait for the new day to bring a new memory, one that will replace the current memory of exclusion and discrimination. I wait for the dawn of a new day, thinking of what life will be like when the sunrise occurs.


Though the long night is discouraging, I mustn’t give in. I must cling to the hope of the sunrise and allow my heart to sing of the dream of a new memory.

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